Tags
Aging, Coming of Age, Daughters, Memoir, Mother-daughter, Relationships, Self-help, Things I Taught My Daughters
© James Currie
Sometimes I wonder if what I taught my daughters over the years will adequately prepare them for going out into the world on their own.
This last weekend I made a list of some of the things I taught them (it made me feel better):
1. How to draw a face, mix colors, carve soap, blow bubbles, make a wish, and chalk a hopscotch board on the sidewalk.
2. How to ride a bike, drive a car and motorboat, sail a Laser, paddle a canoe, ride a horse, skate, toboggan, throw a ball, and use a tennis racquet.
3. How to write a thank you note, compose a poem, keep a journal, make a speech, say hello in five languages, read a map, and wrap a gift.
4. How to snuggle up with blankets to watch movies on the sofa, sing Broadway songs, play the piano and guitar, tap dance and waltz around the living room.
5. How to bake and decorate a cake, make a French pie crust, mega chocolate chip cookies, maple fudge, and butter tarts.
6. How to needlepoint a pillow, knit a scarf, sew a quilt, and draft a pattern.
7. How to spot constellations and satellites in the night sky and look for the green flash just before the sun sets.
8. How to use a hammer, screwdriver, saw, drill, and car jack.
9. How to use a camera, computer, iron, glue gun, vacuum cleaner, mixer, coffee machine, and hair flattener.
10. How to apply sunscreen, foundation, eye shadow, mascara, lipstick, and nail polish.
11. How to do CPR, dress a wound, and prepare for an emergency.
12. How to make a bed, clean a floor, paint a room, and refinish small pieces of furniture.
13. How to wash the car, use duct tape, cut grass, plant bulbs, and make a flower arrangement.
14. How to make a budget, use coupons, recycle and upcycle, and roll change.
15. How to keep their word, obey the law, vote, volunteer, continually learn and discover, work, and pray.
Try making a list yourself – your child or children could help!
